PHRASES THAT INSTANTLY RAISE OUR BLOOD PRESSURE

Do you say these things? If you do, be ready for your conversation partner’s blood pressure gto go up. Better to say more clearly what you actually mean.1. You look tired.2. Smile.3. It’s fine.4. I’m fine.5. Calm down.6. Relax.7. You’re so...

PATRIOTIC DEI

Before you jump on any bandwagon arguing that DEI should be eliminated, investigate what’s being attacked carefully.  See if you can join me as a patriotic DEI supporter.

WEBINAR THIS THURSDAY 2-3PM CDT

Join me from 2-3PM CDT this Thursday in an interactive conversation about the “Beyond Empathy Project,” a multi-dimensional effort I’m working on.  Registration is free!

Dismantling Racism One On One Workshop

PROGRAMS Mondays, April 8, 15, 22 and 29, 6:30 – 8:00 pm Virtual or In-Person (Hybrid) at Shalom Spirituality Center Racism is a deeply embedded problem, within society and individuals. Since it is not easily resolved or addressed, a wide variety of strategies...

CLOSER THAN EMPATHY

    We wisely avoid sociopaths, because they can abuse, injure, and kill people without feeling bad.  They have no empathy, no desire or ability to understand or feel where another person is coming from and to respond appropriately.  This is a hugely important...

New Couples’ Equity Communicating

My new book, Dismantling Racism One On One highlights the power of each person’s uniqueness to transform racist interactions.  The key, as I explain there, is for conversation partners to co-construct uniquenesses.  I re-tell three true stories of racist...