CLOSER THAN EMPATHY

    We wisely avoid sociopaths, because they can abuse, injure, and kill people without feeling bad.  They have no empathy, no desire or ability to understand or feel where another person is coming from and to respond appropriately.  This is a hugely important...

New Couples’ Equity Communicating

My new book, Dismantling Racism One On One highlights the power of each person’s uniqueness to transform racist interactions.  The key, as I explain there, is for conversation partners to co-construct uniquenesses.  I re-tell three true stories of racist...

KIDS AND POSSIBILITIES: A MEMOIR

Well before Starbucks, coffee came in metal cans that opened with a key.  You pried up the tab at the top of the can, inserted it into the slot on the key, gave a sharp twist to pop the vacuum seal, and enjoyed a delightful whiff of fresh grounds.  Then you kept...