The Secret, the Key, the Magic Wand for Connecting

The Secret, the Key, the Magic Wand for Connecting

How will we know when a computer can actually think?  If you’re an artificial intelligence programmer, you watch the results of the Turing Test, a yearly competition that pits humans against computer programs designed to carry on a conversation.  The rule is, if a...
LISTEN YOUR WAY INTO THAT RELATIONSHIP

LISTEN YOUR WAY INTO THAT RELATIONSHIP

       You’ve just been promoted to supervisor, and you want to build a good relationship with your manager.  “What can I say to help her trust me?” you wonder.  “How can I tell her I’m the best pick for this job?” Or you’re ready to get back into the dating scene....
LOSE “BUT,” USE “AND”

LOSE “BUT,” USE “AND”

“I love you, but I wish you’d change your underwear more often.” “I love you, and I wish you’d change your underwear more often.” More than 30 years ago, family therapist Virginia Satir wisely called attention to the important difference between these two...